HOW TO MOVE ON FROM YOUR EX BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND

HOW TO MOVE ON FROM YOUR EX BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND

Did you just break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend and want to move on? ok, firstly, he/she is not your boyfriend/girlfriend and this is the tips of mine how to move on from your ex boyfriend/girlfriend.

1.      Try not to think about him

It may be hard, but if you two broke up, you need to STOP thinking about him/her. You were too good for him/her anyway, so why should you have to think about them? Get away from everything that reminds you of him/ her until you’re over them. Putting away old pictures and maybe even deleting their contacts from your phone and removing them from Facebook. It might seem rude, but you need to move on.

2.      Have Fun

Go out with friends, with family, go bowling, shopping, go to the cinema, ice skating or even go on a date. Anything to take your mind off of your ex. Or maybe go on a vacation. It doesn’t need to be far away, it can be as close as the next city away. But a little time to yourself or with a friends will really give you a new perspective. Find a happiness.

3.      If you still feel sad, share with your family.

They are always there for you and they can definitely keep your mind off of things. Know that your family loves you unconditionally and that you can talk to them about more than you think. If you’re embarrassed, think about when your parents were younger. They experienced the same things – heartbreak, crushes, indecision – which means that they’ve been through the same things before.

4.      Feel good about yourself

Figure out all the things that you’re good about you and your life. Sometimes you just need to love yourself to make yourself better. Don’t pick yourself apart because you weren’t his/her type, or you think the person broke up with you because you think you’re not as attractive as the other person they are dating now. Time to exercise, go to the spa, beautify yourself, because the loser was the one who LOST you. YOU ARE THE PRIZE.

5.      Try to find someone new to love

You could meet this person in the bookstore or a coffee shop, online or in the middle of the street. Never lose hope as to where you will find your one true love. Everything happens for a reason in the great scheme of things. Know that better things are ahead for you, and be glad that your love story will be in the future and not in the past. Motivate yourself for the future and never give up on finding your true love, because he/she is out there somewhere.